Good vibrations

The guide to higher vibrational dating

If you’re over being desperate and dateless, it’s time to work your relationship magic. According to “love coach” Frances Amaroux, the secret to finding the perfect partner is knowing how to use the laws of attraction.

“Like attracts like,” Frances says. “If you want to attract someone fabulous, you have to be resonating at a certain level.” She says, the key to making your energy vibrate at its passion peak is to get really clear on who you are and what you want.

8 Steps to Getting it right 

• Don’t settle. Women are particularly bad at this. They see the potential and hope the men will change, but he won’t/
• Get clear on your values. Women often end up being flexible on things they’re not actually flexible about.
• Never mistake great sex for a great relationship. You’ll need more than sex to sustain you.
• Don’t choose a partner just because you love them. Love is not enough! Look for chemistry plus values, interests, lifestyle and goals.
• Create a fulfilling life and a healthy self esteem. Ask yourself. “What is my current vibration saying about me?”
• Make sure you’re clear of anger from your past relationships. If you’re not, whatever you haven’t dealt with will be drawn in through your next partner.
• Ensure he’s available. If he isn’t on the market, move on.
• If you feel you’re ready but no-one is on the horizon, don’t panic. If you’re putting out the right vibration, he will come.

Are you ready for a relationship?

See how many of these apply to you, then check your score!

1. I know what I want: I have a clear vision for my life and relationship.
2. I know my requirements: I have written a list of at least 10 non-negotiable points I use for screening potential partners.
3. I am happy being single: I enjoy my life, my work, my family, my friends and my own company.
4. I am ready for commitment: I have no emotional or legal baggage from a previous relationship.
5. I am satisfied with my work: My work is fulfilling and supports my lifestyle.
6. I am healthy: I have no physical, emotional or mental health, challenges that would interfere with having the life and the relationship I want.

Result

- 0-4: Red light

Take a break. Focus on your life and being ready for the love you want.

-5-7 : Amber light

Continue to work on the areas needed ad take it slow in any relationships.

-8-10 Green light

You’re well on your way to the life and relationship you really want.

By Julie Hamilton on Thursday, January 28, 2010 and filed under 'Relationship' | (0)


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